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No matter what you know, or learn, proper execution requires self-control. You cannot pretend to love your husband just enough for him to love you back. Either Lessons For A Happy Marriage, or Breaking The Cycle, which is more technical, and could be called a marriage manual; are great options. is in book stores all over the country, and is promoted by couples counselors (even though I recommend against couples counseling), so it sells better. If your marriage is in serious trouble, like if this is not the first time, you need to go all the way to our online courses.The SEW technique helps you leverage your will power to achieve your aims, That was your vow when you got married, but because your “love” was not like that your marriage broke down. But not as long as you allow selfish and even hostile thoughts to reside in your mind. You need to persevere with what you learn, and change yourself into the ideal lover. My books get all positive reviews, because they are ideal guides. You should start your course first (there are two different courses; one is for women, and one is for men).His straying is a wake up call, or a death knell; that is up to you.Do nothing positive and proactive and your marriage will keep getting worse; guaranteed.You should NEVER criticize or condemn your husband, anyway; but especially in front of your children. When you ‘hear’ things your subconscious mind takes it in, giving the negative more substance. Our specially trained counselors can explain whatever you need. But by the time anger causes the man to stray he is not amenable to being part of the problem. To accomplish anything in life you need to control the mind.If you ‘hear’ validations of your frustrations, anger, and condemnations, you will have more obstacles to contend with. This is a problem for many people, and one I take very seriously. I created the SEW technique to help people, and advise its use.Those couples who live in such a sweet loving marriage never consider cheating.Not because it is immoral, but because their hearts minds and souls are so full of love that the thought never enters into their mind. The other reasons, which follow, are trite in comparison. Is it because he is a “two timing so-and-so who should rot in hell”? Those few are cursed with true mental disorders, or are evil (a hard bar to reach).
Your marriage is not meant to be shared with your children, but provide the love, examples training and security they need. You may write in to us if you would like to understand better, or if you have any other questions about your marriage. The causes always are due to the couple not having enough practical marriage aptitude. In cases of boredom or escape, both of the couple want to take the courses, because they both see the possibilities. The first is lighter to read, the other one is our textbook for certifying our counselors. Some like to ease into the courses; reading a book, and utilizing our free help.
Instead of getting swallowed up by the magnitude of his betrayal, let’s make it My ONLY desire is to help you get your marriage back, and we are very good at that.
We have helped countless women do so; ones who were told it was impossible by others.
It is not easy to hear that your husband would not have strayed if your marriage was better.
But if you pretend things at home were fine until he strayed you are fooling yourself. If they were, and he thought so too, he would cherish you and never do anything to hurt you.