Dating an emotionally unavailable women
Their position is “I will turn down people before they hurt me”. One method of defense works for every human being equally. Compared with women who are emotionally secure and who are comfortable with intimate relationships, a man has to work harder and deal with more problems. If you really want her and are sure of it, I'll help you get there.
Remember, emotionally detached people act and behave unnatural and bitter. In what follows, I will talk about the characteristics that these women find attractive.
He can handle his own life and satisfy his own needs by himself, including both emotional and material needs.
For example, if one of his needs is to have 10 pairs of new shoes a month, he’ll have the financial resources to buy them.
Every one of us at least once in a lifetime has dealt with emotionally unavailable people.
They seem rigid, cold, unstable and definitely not inviting.
Parents never gave any credits to their children, no dinners or celebrations took place either.
When a child grows up in an atmosphere of coldness and indifference, he or she will inevitably block any feelings, because they will be thought of as unnatural and wild; any words of endearment or validation will never be heard from those people as they simply had been taught to keep emotions inside.
Ugh is there a bigger turn-off than someone admitting they like you??? There's actually nothing wrong with wanting no-strings-attached sex. You're not stupid — you're very much aware that this whole "I feel nothing" facade is total bullshit, and just below the surface, you're a torrent of emotion. You just hope they'll stay securely locked away until you're ready to (safely, cautiously) access them. But really secretly hoping your feelings catch up to you so you can feel like a human again.An emotionally unavailable woman is hard to read, that’s why when a therapist asks her about her parents, the answer will be vague and short: ‘They were normal.’ Emotionally detached people cannot trace problems within their family, because they have never paid too much attention to the things people said, they have a block towards actions, events and sphere of feelings as a whole.In most cases, children become cold at a very young age, because such pattern was the only one to be seen in their families.I think anywhere between 3 and 6 months is a good time table. months, we still can't solve this problem, I will have to regretfully walk away.” If after that time period, you have noticed that she made a big effort to be more emotionally open with you, CONGRATULATIONS, you've found a good woman who loves you and who is willing to change for you. Either she's willing to make the efforts or she isn't.You can say this, “I really want to work this out during the next … I sure hope you can become more emotionally open with me by then. If after that time period, she hasn't changed how she behaves, I want to say this: You deserve to be in a relationship that makes you happy. So, accept the fact that she is not the woman who can truly make you happy and move on.