Dating chinese women tips
While this would mean literal starvation and death in London or NYC, if you live with a family of five people in Central Java where rent is a month and a meal costs 40 cents, you can live pretty comfortably.
However, you will quickly find when you come here that Asia has a huge middle class and a rich elite that could hire most Westerners that hold these notions as their house boys, gardeners and personal drivers if they wished.
If you find the right woman, though, you’ll laugh together at all the ignorant stereotypes you encounter and it can even bring you closer together.
Women the world over are much the same at their core.
Let’s address the elephant in the room right at the start – a lot of people automatically assume when they see a Western man dating Asian women she is either A) After a green card or visa, or B) Is poor and looking for security/wealth. A lot of the Asian women who come to the West with the boyfriends/husbands do in fact fit this category, but by no means all of them have an agenda.
Many of the younger Asian women you see shacked up with older men living in your home city are indeed poor, seeking security and often have an ulterior motive.
But I'll expect you to say it right if we start dating each other. My mom and other family members paid really close attention to my appearance. Not gonna lie, there's a tiny dork-nerd in every Asian. Don't cross me when I'm mad because something like the kimchi slap will happen to you.
As a result, I get asked a lot of questions about what it’s like to date an Asian woman.I don't understand why anyone would eat Flaming Hot Cheetos without chopsticks (keeps the Cheetos dust from getting on the fingers). Don't assume I know how to speak fill-in-the-blank-Asian language. Doesn't matter who's with me, when I'm eating out, I'm going to reach for the check first. With parents and aunts and uncles getting into physical altercations over who gets to pay for dinner. I didn't necessarily grow up speaking any language other than English. I'll expect you to pick up a few words of said language if you don't know it already. You'll never be able to get to the check faster than I can! My parents will immediately reject you as a suitor. Just remember that when the inevitable snide looks and comments come.Nobody ever said dating Asian women was problem free.