Dating larger woman
She sounds awesome and deserving of respect..she saw this post, she would feel so terrible and embarrassed.
If she's not your type, she's not your type.
Dating people based on their body type is a huge gamble.
Who knows what they will look like in 5/10/15 years.
I have been regularly dating for the past 5 years now.
I never clicked with my ex girlfriends like I do with her. My concerns are her general health, and lack of activity in her lifestyle. Somewhere your brain is telling you that you aren't into this girl as much as you may want to be.. As a former larger girl, I know I could pick up on when guys were feeling 'disgusted' by me, or I was always the cool chick who was super fun and good enough to bang but not date.
We are planning to get together, alone, for the first time next week. I also feel like I come from a shallow family that would judge and drive a wedge if I brought her around. Its a terrible feeling to be treated differently all because of weight, which by the way is changeable if someone wants it bad enough. It can grow but it has to have something to bloom from.
I think physical attraction is very important; but at the end of the day, at the end of life, everyone gets old and ugly. Many men who “don’t like big women” dated me and we had good relationships before I sabotaged them. Not gonna lie, this just turned me on a little lol.
If you are interested in more context, I used to be really skinny and have bad acne.