Fat and thin people dating
An entire diet industry is built around that shame. What they don't tell you is that there are plenty of unhappy thin people too. Is the message in the non existence of happy, sexy, romantic fat people from the media and most story lines that fat people doing any of these things is simply a bad idea? Frankly, that is the message that I have gotten through the years.The message that is being delivered in great big heaping doses is pretty simple: if you lose the weight—you will find love, romance and sex. Actually, I think that most of us would find it fascinating to see fat people having all of these things, as so many of us are fat, know someone who is fat, love someone who is fat and think we are fat even if we are not fat!
So yes - men who are big, study, fat and burly are more socially accepted.
So perhaps, as I previously stated, the world at large simply feels that being a fat sexy person is simply a bad idea. So, fat people have a choice—they can put their lives on hold until they have a thinner body. Some people will enjoy your size for lots of wonderful reasons. " If you are a guy—just insert man for when I talk about women.
Some people love the feeling of a strong solid body to push against, or the fabulous softness of gentle curves. I believe in the possibility of you finding everything you need in the body you are in now.
Stop pressing the pause button on your life for someday when I am thin. While it's true that there are plenty of complexities in our relationship, I've pieced together so much of how her behavior has changed over the years, and it's clear to me that her weight issue has taken it's toll on her mental health--and our marriage.
Therapists have tried to help her with her issues but so far no luck.