Between the letdown that comes from high expectations and the jadedness that comes from low ones, setting expectations is a surefire way to make dating unenjoyable.There's no way to know if you're compatible with someone after just one date or even two, Graham writes.You could even introduce each other to your future partners.Graham had one client who went out with a woman who was giving away a puppy.
It's really easy to get jaded when you've been on a bunch of dates that didn't go anywhere, but the trick is to view your dates simply as an opportunities to have fun and learn.
Apparently, there's a lot we've been doing wrong, and between her psychic intuition and her experience counseling people on their relationships, Graham has a unique perspective to offer people whose dating lives seem to be stuck in a rut.
Graham, who is also the star of TLC's "Psychic Matchmaker," tells Bustle that she can tune into people's energetic fields to find out what their romantic histories look like, where their paths are leading, and what they need to do to remove obstacles in their way.
Psychic Deborah Graham has had premonitions since she was a little kid and has been advising people on their love lives for over 20 years.
In her new book, Get Your Head Out of Your App: A Psychic's Guide to Attracting and Keeping True Love, she imparts the wisdom that her time as a love psychic has taught her, focusing on some of the biggest mistakes singles make in their quest for love.