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In other words, if you’re a Western man, you will be in a pretty good spot. In terms of what I like to do on dates, that really depends where I meet the girl.If I’m in Bangkok, and I meet a fairly Westernized girl either on the street or on one of those dating sites, then a solid spot for a first date would be something like a cool local bar to get a couple of drinks. Another solid option is to just meet up for coffee at some random coffee shop in order to properly feel her out.I’ve had women with whom I’ve slept on the very first date that went on to become super amazing relationships, it can be a sign that the woman you’re with is easy and not especially applicable to a relationship.5) She asks for money. Many Asian women think that Western guys are super loaded, so some women have no problems asking the guys they’re getting to know or seeing for some “financial help.” They make up all kinds of reasons for this help: perhaps it’s to help some ”family member” who lives on some farm, or maybe one of her relatives is “sick” and needs financial assistance.This is a big red flag because no good or quality girl would ever ask her Western boyfriend for money. Even if she’s a very poor girl from the village, if she’s a half-way decent girl, she would never ask you for money.
Of course, this is changing as the country becomes more Westernized and, indeed, women in Bangkok and perhaps Chiang Mai are more Westernized than, say, women in Isan, a remote region in Thailand known for its very traditional women.If by the 3rd date, the woman isn’t willing to get “intimate” with you, there’s a good chance she’s just using you for attention and wasting your time.Of course, super conservative women do exist, so you’ll have to trust your gut with this, but that’s typically been my experience.We visited the southern islands, headed up to Chiang Mai and wrapped up our trip in Bangkok.Comparing to Western women that I was dating at that time (this was before my Latin American adventures), this Thai woman was an absolute breath of fresh air. While the West is being overrun with radical feminism and #metoo movements, Thailand is still firmly a very traditional society replete with fairly submissive women.